In this final hour as I await my car and driver to transport me to the Cass County Courthouse, I feel butterflies bouncing around in my empty stomach. I spent the morning vomiting foam due to anxiety over facing rapist Aaron Michael Lamb in court. I am nervous… but I am not afraid.
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The final hour
Posted by Jacqueline on December 16, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/12/16/the-final-hour/
Insult to Injury
This article from Bitch Media is so good I felt the need to share it here in its entirety. You can also view the original post here.
Who’s Left out of the Picture When We Talk About Traumatic Brain Injury?
by Sarah KishpaughPublished on September 6, 2018 at 10:20am
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(more…)Posted by Jacqueline on December 7, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/12/07/insult-to-injury/
Richard Kodadek is a rapist and a wife beater
Since my 2013 wedding to Richard Lee Kodadek (DOB 01/03/1981), I have been struggling to recover from a traumatic brain injury I sustained as a result of that relationship. Granted, I did not know this is what I was struggling with until several years later. I was told repeatedly by many doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, and my husband himself that I was “just” wrestling with depression, anxiety, and mood instability. The fact of the matter is that in a single day, my entire personality had changed and nobody close to me – not even Richard Kodadek – seemed to take notice.
Posted by Jacqueline on December 4, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/12/04/my-own-personal-timesup/
Not just another Wednesday morning!
I awoke Wednesday morning to a surprise I had never expected to receive. Aaron Lamb, renowned sexual predator and businessman, had made an attempt to call me at 3am the morning of December 1, 20201. So I did what any savvy rape survivor would do – I call my local dispatch center to report the harassment to my local police department.
(more…)Posted by Jacqueline on December 2, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/12/02/not-just-another-wednesday-morning/
A call at 3am from a rapist
Posted by Jacqueline on December 1, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/12/01/a-call-at-3am-from-a-rapist/
Aaron Lamb is a Rapist
Aaron Michael Lamb (DOB 02/14/1975) is a sexual predator and a rapist. I was not his first victim and will surely not be his last. He raped me in my own bed one April night in 2021. I thought he was someone who could be trusted, but I was very wrong.
Posted by Jacqueline on November 24, 2021
https://justonetake.com/2021/11/24/aaron-lamb-is-a-rapist/
Should I report rape?
It’s an awful shame that’s even a question. We don’t question if we should report a burglary, a car crash, or any other type of assault. But unfortunately, rape falls into its own unique category. A survivor of a sexual assault needs to consider many factors when it comes to reporting.
Posted by Jacqueline on February 17, 2020
https://justonetake.com/2020/02/17/should-i-report-rape/
He’s just that kind of guy
Richard Lee Kodadek
He is charming… he is kind and empathetic… he is generous – or at least he makes the effort to appear that way to the public.
He’s a “regular joe” – the kind of guy who donates his time on a Friday night after a long work week because he has a friend whose daughter has a brain tumor and the local Shriner’s are hosting a benefit for her.
But he’s also the kind of guy who raped his wife.
Posted by Jacqueline on November 30, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/11/30/hes-just-that-kind-of-guy/
The girl I would do anything for – update coming soon
It has been more than one year since I saw her last.
She is still in the custody of known rapist – Cole Mooridian. He left her bedroom door open while he raped her babysitter in their home in June 2017. While there is little more I can do to help her, the one thing I can do is write.
Posted by Jacqueline on August 16, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/16/the-girl-i-would-do-anything-for-2/
On being “lucky”
I am a survivor.
I have survived not one – but two sexual assaults.
I have survived the loss of my babies, Alexandra and Frances.
I have survived the loss of my dear friend Jennifer.
I’ve also survived three car crashes, four job losses, and high school.
Yet, I still consider myself a “lucky” survivor of sexual assault.
Posted by Jacqueline on June 14, 2017
https://justonetake.com/2017/06/14/on-being-lucky/
Just One Take 