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Why survivors stay silent
Posted by Just One Take on August 22, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/22/why-survivors-stay-silent/
Ninety-nine percent and what happens to survivors who speak out
This is not a post about income inequality. This is a post about the “other” ninety-nine percent. This is a post about the statistical fact that 99 percent of perpetrators of rape walk free among us.
Posted by Just One Take on August 21, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/21/ninety-nine-percent/
The days that follow – update
And he continues to live his life as if this never happened – as is he never raped the babysitter while that little girl slept across the hallway with all doors in the house wide open. He lives as if he never used a gun to threaten me. He lives as if he got away with it.
I took the bold move of unblocking him today. Much to my surprise, Cole had not blocked me. I guess he’s just that confident of a rapist. Scrolling through his timeline, I wasn’t surprised to see he still has this post from the night he assaulted me.
In the days that followed since Cole Mooridian sexually assaulted me in his home during the early morning hours of June 4th – his life continued as normal.
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Posted by Just One Take on August 17, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/17/the-days-that-follow-2/
The girl I would do anything for – update coming soon
It has been more than one year since I saw her last.
She is still in the custody of known rapist – Cole Mooridian. He left her bedroom door open while he raped her babysitter in their home in June 2017. While there is little more I can do to help her, the one thing I can do is write.
Posted by Just One Take on August 16, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/16/the-girl-i-would-do-anything-for-2/
I was never your cure.
I was never your cure. I am your addiction.
You hurt me far too many times, I could mention
After it has all been done and said –
You thought you could leave, but I’m still in your head.
Posted by Just One Take on August 5, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/05/i-was-never-your-cure/
I will not abandon you.
I’m not sure if you get my messages. You often say you will block my number. So I don’t know if they get through to you – either literally or metaphorically. But I know you check this website every day so I will tell it to you again here. I will not abandon you.
Posted by Just One Take on August 2, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/08/02/i-will-not-abandon-you/
Letter to my husband
Dear Richard,
You’ve always been a coward. I didn’t see it for so long because I loved you. Though I love you still, the rose-colored glasses have been removed and I see you for what you are.
You are a coward. You were a coward before I met you. And you are a coward still. You told me yourself that you stayed on SSI/Disability long after you had any need of it – that staying on it was your “security blanket.” When I needed you most to speak for me, you stayed silent. When I needed you to notice me and the work I was doing, you ignored me. You belittled me. You marginalized me. And when I was struggling after running out of medication, you not only failed to notice – you left. You abandoned me in my most desperate hour. And you’ve abandoned me every day, every hour, every minute since then.
Posted by Just One Take on July 20, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/07/20/letter-to-my-husband/
Happy Anniversary Richard!
I would like to wish my husband a happy anniversary! It was one year ago today he revealed to me the lie that our marriage had been built upon.
Posted by Just One Take on July 19, 2018
https://justonetake.com/2018/07/19/happy-anniversary-richard/
I am so much more
Posted by Just One Take on June 14, 2017
https://justonetake.com/2017/06/14/i-am-so-much-more/
The Importance of Prevention
Written by D.O.
Holidays can be a time of great joy. This past year, my holiday season was filled with gifts of generosity, the love of family and friends, and sounds of laughter that sang such a sweet ambient melody I couldn’t help but stop for a moment to bask in the peaceful joy of it all – even amid the hustle and bustle that can also accompany the latter months of the year. (more…)
Posted by Just One Take on February 22, 2013
https://justonetake.com/2013/02/22/the-importance-of-prevention/
